Can Courage Be Learned
If you look at the most revered people in history, the people
who have done the most for the world, the people who have pushed
society forward, you'll invariably find that a major
characteristic of those individuals is courage. But what is
courage?
S. J. Rachman, a Canadian psychologist specializing in fear
and courage, says that many people think of courage as
fearlessness. However, Rachman defines courage as perseverance
in the face of fear and stress.
Courage is a personal strength, which equates to the ability
to act when others of lesser courage will not. It's the ability
to act in spite of fear and overwhelming opposition. It's the
ability to act in spite of hardship, despair and sometimes,
imminent personal physical danger.
Ask yourself, Who's the most courageous individual you've
personally known? Next, who's the most courageous person you can
identify throughout history? Now, what were the courageous
characteristics that caused you to choose these individuals? My
personal favorite is Winston Churchill. At the end of World War
I, Churchill was in charge of the British navy. After a major
naval defeat, he was removed from office and then had to endure
more than 20 years of rejection of his political views. He
admittedly suffered some very low times. But he never wavered on
his beliefs. His views were eventually proven correct when the
Germans swept through Europe, and Churchill was the obvious
choice to become Britain's wartime prime minister.
Everyone automatically looked to him in this time of need
because they knew where he stood and they witnessed him display
courage in battle, putting himself in harm's way over and over
again. His personal courage and determination helped inspire an
entire nation to continue to resist a force that at the time
must have seemed to most ... insurmountable. And yet Churchill
wasn't a likely person to become courageous. According to
Stephen Mansfield, in his book Never Give In: The Extraordinary
Character of Winston Churchill, Churchill didn't have physical
strength or towering stature. He was neglected, ridiculed, and
misused by friends and family alike. He was brought up in the
leisure class, which seldom produces principled men of vision.
However, in spite of all that, he developed a staggering moral
and physical bravery.
Mansfield goes on to say about courage, "It cannot be taught,
though it can be inspired. And it normally springs from
something like faith or resolve — a commitment to something
larger than oneself. It can burst forth instantly as though
awakened by a sudden jolt. But, more often, it waits in silence
until aroused by some pressing challenge. What is certain of
courage, though," he says, "is that true leadership is
impossible without it."
Churchill himself said, "Courage is rightly esteemed the
first of human qualities, because it is the quality that
guarantees all others."
Mansfield is right to say that it would be difficult to teach
someone to operate at, as he says, "the staggering level of
courage of a Churchill or a Gandhi or a Martin Luther King."
However, it's been proven that courage can be learned, and that
is incredibly important for any of us who would like to increase
our courage in some area of our lives.
Among S. J. Rachman's research, he observed the military
bomb-disposal officers serving in the British army in Northern
Ireland. He discovered that these men were able to cultivate a
great capacity for courage, even if they initially lacked a high
degree of self-confidence or a natural ability to persist under
pressure. He found that the ability to persist and function well
in the face of great danger was largely the result of intense
and specialized training for their job. Not only being prepared,
but knowing you are prepared.
Denis Waitley describes fear as one of the strongest
motivating emotions we can experience. Yet we do have the power
to choose an even stronger motivation that can override fear and
cause us to act courageously.
Denis used to be a Navy pilot, and he observed the training
of our astronauts. After some of the most arduous and intense
training ever devised, astronauts have been able to act
efficiently and effectively, even in incredibly dangerous
situations. As Neil Armstrong said after he walked on the moon,
"It was just like a drill. It was just like we planned it."
It's apparent that we can become more courageous with enough
preparation. If we venture, we do so by faith, because we cannot
know the end of anything at its beginning. Isn't this the
ultimate reason that doubt and fear are able to eat away at our
courage? We're fearful because we cannot know the end of
anything at its beginning, and we start imagining the worst
possible scenarios. So, it seems our best chance to overcome
fear and become courageous is to prepare and then have faith.
Now, in what area of your life would you like to become more
courageous?
Vic Conant is the President and CEO of
Nightingale-Conant Corp, the premier publisher of audio
personal development programs in the world.
Vic has undoubtedly worked with more of the great
self-improvement authors than any other human being alive today.
And when an upcoming author in the human potential field wants
to get published it is just natural for him or her to seek out
Vic and Nightingale-Conant.
Nightingale Conant publishes personal development audio
programs with authors such as:
Wayne Dyer,
Brian Tracy,
Mark Hyman,
Deepak Chopra,
David Hawkins,
Marianne Williamson, and many others.
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